Matchmakers

Personalized, discreet, and effective matchmaking for same-gender-loving professionals.

J‘LAMAR

Certified Executive Matchmaker & Dating Coach

J’Lamar is the founder and Executive Matchmaker of We Find Him LLC which focuses on improving same gender loving men’s dating experiences through individualized self-development coaching and personalized matchmaking plans. J’Lamar is also a Dating Coach, TV Personality, Talk Show Host, and Certified Life Coach with over a decade of experience in the media industry, ranging from hosting to producing and writing original content.

Most recently J’Lamar has worked as on air-personality and Dating Expert for AfterBuzz TV, Black Hollywood Live,PopFuzion TV, Talk It Up, National Black Television Network, iElevatePlus TV, and has been featured on E! network’s hit show Dating No Filter. While balancing his television show success and building We Find HIM, J’Lamar has built a matchmaking database of over 500 singles located in Atlanta, DC, Houston, Dallas, Miami, Charlotte, Los Angeles, San Franciso, Toronto, Johannesburg, and many other cities around the world.

J’Lamar’s Mission

J’Lamar’s life mission is to entertain, connect, and inspire people to never give up on themselves or love.

Customer Testimonials

Real experiences from singles who found confidence, connection, and love through WE FIND HIM.

Mark

Thank you to J’Lamar for helping me organize my first date with a guy. It was a success and we have a second date already lined up.

Mark

Derrick

The @WeFindHIM page helped me find my boyfriend of 4 months. Thanks J’Lamar and team!

Derrick

Jackson

I was nervous about dating again after being single for 6 years, but thanks to J’Lamar’s coaching I feel excited about getting back on the dating scene.

Jackson

Get In Touch

Whether you’re ready to become a client or just have a question, we’d love to hear from you. Our team is here to help you take the next step toward finding HIM.