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Frequently Asked Questions
Here are answers to some of the most common questions about our matchmaking and coaching services. If you don’t see your question here, feel free to contact us directly.
What makes WE FIND HIM different from dating apps?
Unlike dating apps, we use a 2-step screening process and personalized coaching to ensure quality matches. Every introduction is hand-selected and focused on long-term compatibility, not just swipes.
Is my information kept private?
Yes. Discretion and confidentiality are our top priorities. We never share your personal details without your consent.
Do you only work with same-gender-loving singles?
Yes. WE FIND HIM specializes in matchmaking and coaching for same-gender-loving professionals who want meaningful relationships.
How long does the matchmaking process take?
Every client is unique, but many of our clients begin meeting potential matches within the first 30–60 days of their contract.
Do I have to sign a long-term contract?
No. We offer different matchmaking packages, from short-term blind date specials to 3-month platinum programs.
Can I join just as a potential match without becoming a full client?
Yes! You can apply to join our free singles database and be considered as a potential match for one of our clients.
Do you offer virtual coaching?
Yes. All of our dating coaching services are available virtually, so you can participate from anywhere.
What if I don’t find a match?
Our coaching ensures you grow personally no matter what. And since every client is personally screened, your chances of finding a compatible match are much higher than on traditional platforms.
Customer Testimonials
Real experiences from singles who found confidence, connection, and love through WE FIND HIM.
Thank you to J’Lamar for helping me organize my first date with a guy. It was a success and we have a second date already lined up.
Mark
The @WeFindHIM page helped me find my boyfriend of 4 months. Thanks J’Lamar and team!
Derrick
I was nervous about dating again after being single for 6 years, but thanks to J’Lamar’s coaching I feel excited about getting back on the dating scene.
Jackson
About WE FIND HIM
Since 2015, WE FIND HIM has been the premier same-gender-loving matchmaking and dating coaching service — exclusive, discreet, and designed to help you find HIM while becoming the best version of YOU.