Our Services
Exclusive matchmaking, coaching, and events designed to help you find HIM.
“Love is not just about chance — it’s about preparation, confidence, and connection. Our tailored services are designed to guide you every step of the way.”
Personalized Matchmaking
Our exclusive matchmaking packages are designed to guide you through every step of your dating journey. From blind dates to premium private mixers, we tailor the experience to help you find HIM.
HIM & HIM Blind Date Special
- 30-Minute Coaching Session
- 1 Blind Date Included
- Maximum of 3 Blind Dates per package
HIM Silver
- 45-Minute Virtual Coaching
- 30-Minute Virtual Wardrobe Consultation
- Dating Tips & Conversation Starters Sheet
- 4 Personalized Matches
- 45-Day Contract
HIM Gold
- Everything in HIM Silver
- 1 Mock Date with Feedback
- Additional 1-Hour Coaching Session
- 6 Personalized Matches
- 60-Day Contract
HIM Platinum
- Everything in HIM Gold
- 8 Personalized Matches
- Invitation to a Private Dating Mixer
- 3-Month Contract
Our clients are carefully hand-selected on a case-by-case basis. However, if you’re ready to take the first step toward love, apply today.
Dating Coaching Services
Our one-on-one and group coaching programs are designed to build your confidence, refine your dating skills, and help you show up as your best self. Whether you’re just starting or ready to elevate your dating journey, we’ve got a program tailored for you.
HIM to HIM Coaching
- One-on-One Virtual Coaching
- 45-Minute Session
Becoming HIM – 6 Week Program
- Six 45-Minute Virtual Coaching Sessions
- Personalized Homework & Action Steps after each session
Becoming HIM – 9 Week Program
- Nine 45-Minute Virtual Coaching Sessions
- In-Depth Guidance with Weekly Exercises
HIM Group Coaching
- Interactive Group Virtual Coaching Sessions
- Max. 6 Participants per Group
Our coaching programs are designed to help you step confidently into the dating world. Whether you’re looking for personalized guidance or the support of a group setting, we’re here to help you become the best version of yourself.
Premier Concierge Service
Dating is more than just meeting the right person — it’s about creating unforgettable experiences. Our Premier Concierge Service is tailored to make every moment special, from your first impression to your most meaningful milestones.
Services include:
- Wardrobe Styling
- Date Planning
- Fitness Planning
- Gift Shopping
- Proposal Planning
- Private Dating Mixers
Email info@wefindhim.com for personalized pricing.
J’Lamar’s Mission
J’Lamar’s life mission is to entertain, connect, and inspire people to never give up on themselves or love.
Customer Testimonials
Real experiences from singles who found confidence, connection, and love through WE FIND HIM.
Thank you to J’Lamar for helping me organize my first date with a guy. It was a success and we have a second date already lined up.
Mark
The @WeFindHIM page helped me find my boyfriend of 4 months. Thanks J’Lamar and team!
Derrick
I was nervous about dating again after being single for 6 years, but thanks to J’Lamar’s coaching I feel excited about getting back on the dating scene.
Jackson
Get In Touch
Whether you’re ready to become a client or just have a question, we’d love to hear from you. Our team is here to help you take the next step toward finding HIM.